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Men should step up when it comes to sharing household responsibilities

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Too often, women shoulder more of the load at home, even when couples believe it is proportionate.

Too often, women shoulder more of the load at home, even when couples believe it is proportionate.

ST ILLUSTRATION: MANNY FRANCISCO

  • Women globally bear a disproportionate share of domestic and caregiving responsibilities, possibly impacting Singapore's declining birth rate despite supportive policies.
  • Family planning disproportionately burdens women with physically demanding options and side effects, while men have easier choices like vasectomies.
  • The author calls for men to embrace true shared responsibility, including when it comes to family planning.

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SINGAPORE – When I married, I fully expected to share in all the responsibilities of the household.

Laundry, cleaning the house, even with the kids – if we had them by some strange freak of nature as we were not planning to have children when we got married.

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